Small moments

Love to me, is an action word. It's a doing, done or to-do word. Do you get me? And best of all, it's continuous. "For what is grief if not love persevering ". Now, I think I got the quote wrong. Lord, help me!

When I first heard the song, it was on IG. A woman and her sick daughter were there. I didn't expect the baby to die. But she died. And it was painful even though I didn't know them at all. I still don't know them. 

Big Love happens when Boda Kenny chooses to sing a song to Sister Dara cause Dara is grieving and she needs to hear the song, but she doesn't have it. So, Boda Kenny sings from the phone. 

Big love happens when Afolasayo feeds me cause I literally have nothing. Or when she gives me a piece of her heart in a cloth.

It happens when Bunmi accompanies me to take injections. And even when silly me, forgets her purse, Bunmi helps me pay. 

Big love happens when Ini loses her phone and we gather our broke asses (not all of them are broke anyway, I'm the broke one) and gather funds. 

Big love is when Iyin always send Happy New Month messages. Even when I hardly reply cause I no longer understand my relationship with WhatsApp.

"Everything is sacred when you take time to notice big love happens in the small moments"